I am a fat gay guy and just coming out?

Ok, so here is my story... I am a fat gay guy. I am 26 years old and just recently accepted myself as gay and am starting the coming out process. I have told 4 people so far and the reaction has been good. I was tired of all the lies and it took me to a dark place. I had literally created two versions of myself. The one i showed the world; The happy straight me, and the gay/sad me, the real me whom i tucked deep down inside. Well it was like a poison and I nearly didn't make it out alive. I grew tired of my self pity and decided that it was time to make me happy and so I fused the two versions of myself back together and began my coming out process and it feels great!! :) I know that i should probably lose weight for health reasons and blah blah blah but it just isn't going to happen. I am a fat guy I will always be a fat guy and i'm ok with that. Being fat after all was the least of my problems. I have tired to meet gay people online but i get rejected all of the time and most all say things like must thin/lean/average build even to just hang out with!?!!. Anyways My question is this: Where do i go or how do I find someone to date and who will love me for me? I was never very good at dating girls when i was "straight" so i have no idea where to start with guys and it will be even harder as its seems like 98% of guys want thin guys. Are there any chubs or chasers out there who can share some stories of where and how they met. or anyone with any advice that isn't "lose weight..ect..." I just want to meet someone who can love me for me. Thank you all in advance!